Monthly Archives: April 2016

What is Life All About?

Maybe we don’t think about this question and all the questions it generates until we face the end of  our life.    Then the questions come quickly!  What have I accomplished by my life?   Have I been successful?   Has my life made a difference?   For whom?    How do I want to be remembered?    What legacy have I left behind?    When people think of me after I’m gone, if they do, what will they think about? In general, what meaning does my life have?

As one who just went on hospice this week, I think I can speak to this topic with a far deeper insight than I could  have done two weeks ago……

I’ve had a great life!   My office walls contain many awards, commendations,  mementos; three higher education degrees (a Bachelor of Arts and 2 Master’s degrees),   Recently on my 80th birthday reception more than 100 people from all over Kansas showed up to celebrate with me.  They included extended family, friends, colleagues in ministry, etc.–.     I have enjoyed a wonderful loving and caring relationship with my wife Kay the past 4+ years.   She has a deep love for God and a deep love for me that doesn’t stop when the going gets rough, as it is now.  I am so blessed by her love.       In my lifetime  I’ve been able to travel to Russia and have memories and souvenirs from there, as well as traveling to Alaska and other parts of the U.S.       I’ve had reasonably good health up to the last year which enabled me to remain active..    I’ve served many churches  as pastor and earned from them the title I appreciate the most—pastor.    I have awards in both education, including membership in the educational fraternity, Phi Delta Kappa and am listed in Who’s Who in Education. after 30+ years of teaching in high school and college.  In Christian ministry I have the “Honored Minister’s pin: and am a “Minister Emeritus in the region of Kansas—-all highly significant awards.

But what I want to express here is my most important possession, although it is not  really a possession.     I am loved!       I am loved by God;  I am loved by my wife;   I am loved by my children and grandchildren; I am loved by my step-children and step-grandchildren and by many of my  former students and parishioners and by people I have worked with in both the regional church and the  individual parishes I have served.

As I contemplate it, my life has been surrounded by love and all of the accomplishments that I could have made—-are all built around that LOVE.    By the love and support I have received.  Everything I have accomplished has been because someone loved and supported me.   To give every instance as an example would be to write my biography.    However, two of the accomplishments that I am most proud of that  are built around love are my son and daughter.   They came out of  love for my first wife Dee, they were raised knowing that we loved them.    I remember a conversation with them a few years back when I said—“you know we didn’t always do things right when we were raising you—-we made a lot of mistakes.”   Their reply was that the mistakes were not that  important to them now.  What was important they said was that they always knew they were loved and we were there for them when they needed it.  Both of these children are now independent, loving and caring individuals.   They are an accomplishment of love.

The apostle Paul wrote in the 13th chapter of II Corinthians these well-known words.   They apply so well to what I am truing to say:

If I speak in the tongues of mortals and angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.   And if have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love;  I am nothing.   If I give away all my possessions and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love;  I gain nothing…..

Put love at the center of your life.   Give it and receive it freely.   It is the most important possession that  life can give you.   Love is the source of all the meaningful accomplishments you make in life.  THEY COME FROM LOVE FOR GOD AND LOVE FOR OTHERS.  AND WHEN YOU PUT LOVE AT THE CENTER OF YOUR LIFE YOU PUT GOD THERE   BECAUSE  GOD IS LOVE.

Seeing God in Ourselves and Others

The way we see God is the way we see ourselves ; and the way we see ourselves is the way we see others.    

In the Book of Genesis we read:  “So God created humankind in his image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.”  (Gen. 1:26-27)

We are all created in God’s image.   So how do we see God, and therefore our own self-image and the image of others?     This is a crucial question.    For example, if we see God as  a mighty King who lays down the rules and severely punishes those who disobey them by committing them to Hell for eternity—-then we see ourselves as sinners who are always falling short of the rules and worthy of punishment.     We will also see others as evil people like us who cannot be worthy of going to Heaven unless we do the prescribed repentance ; unlovable and not to be trusted.

The Biblical answer to the question—-How do we see God and therefore ourselves and those others around us?—is simple.    When I turn to the Gospels, I find that God gave us an answer to that question in Jesus.    IN JESUS GOD WAS GIVEN A FACE AND A HEART!!  It’s called “the incarnation”.   The God Jesus revealed was and is a God we could love and who loves us back—-because Jesus by his life and ministry and teachings has shown us that God is love!  GOD IS LOVE is the central attribute that stands behind all the descriptions of God in our Bible.    

Read the 13th chapter of I Corinthians:

If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.   And if I have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.   If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body, so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing…. (I. Cor. 13:1-3     

Paul writes that if we are brilliant speakers, have vast knowledge , have faith capable of moving mountains, willingly  give our bodies as sacrifices AND DO NOT HAVE LOVE—all is worthless.

LOVE IS THE CENTER OF EVERYTHING.    LOVE DEFINES GOD.   Therefore I  must ask  these questions for you to ponder--Is your God a God of love?   Does love direct all that you are as a person?     Do you love those around you because you see in them the image of God—-Love?

Think about it!

The New America???

If you want to get a picture of the “new America” and the “new Americans” go to a Trump Rally.    The large numbers of supporters he has for his ideas of what America should be and the actions they are willing to take to support these ideas are telling us something.    He has attracted large numbers of meaner, rougher, less civil supporters who are not interested  in social justice, rule by law, the homeless, the immigrant—-or really any human life but their own.   They are only into themselves and their wants and desires.   They think so and they have the right to think and do whatever they wish in their minds, without regard for consequences for the general welfare of the country.  

It’s an America that will carpet-bomb enemies with no regard for loss of innocent lives. 

It’s an America that will put other ethnic and religious groups into ghettos so they can be patrolled and controlled.

It’s an America with no regard for the poor, the needy, the mentally and emotionally challenged, the homeless men, women and children.  It’s an America where children and the elderly will die for lack of nutrition and adequate medical care.    It’s a selfish and self-centered America  where “compassion” drops out of our vocabulary.

It’s an America where the rich get richer and the middle class keeps getting poorer until finally there will be only two classes—the very rich and the poverty class.

It’s an America where Medicare and Medicaid and Health Care wll be privatized and run for profit  and the bottom net profit line on the profit sheet will replace good and adequate medical care.   And you will have to pay for that care, so the old, those in poverty, homeless people, children, and the elderly will just have to  “die” and as Scrooge said in a Christmas Carol—“get rid of the excess population”

We are going down this road and your vote for any of the GOP Presidential candidates will speed our progress toward the America described above.

America will no longer be what we sing of in our National Anthem—“the land of the free and the home of the brave.”   Instead, it will be “the land of power and control and the home of the fearful.”

Are we going to let this happen to our beautiful country??!!