“Do We Really Want This Baby?
Text: Luke 1:26-38
Do We Really Want this Baby?? Due to the invention of the birth control pill and the legalization of abortion, that is a question often asked in our country these days. Our discussions about abortion often generate a lot more heat than they do light on the subject. Listening to the arguments, that can be vicious on either side of the question, you would think that in the U.S. children are very important!!
I’m not saying that children are not important. I am saying that sometimes we have mixed emotions in the United States as well as the rest of the world about children.
On the one hand, we have couples who spend thousands of dollars at fertility clinics trying to have a child. On the other hand, we have couples who want to abort their prospective children if they are the wrong sex, have some physical disability, or if they think they are “not ready yet.” So what do we really think about having children. In truth, when we look at it statistically in the U.S., Germany, and Japan we see a we see a baby bust, not a baby boom. People are having fewer and fewer babies. In the U.S., the total birth rate has dropped from 3.2 children per woman in 1920 to 2.1 children today. In Europe, the birth rate is even more changed—from 2.8 children to 1.5 over the period of 1970 to 2000. WHY? Lots of “experts” give lots of reasons that vary from:
The cost of children in the U.S.—that exceeds $200,000 per child, not including college.
The fact that we have good retirement insurance and don’t need children to take care of us in our old age.
The shift from an agricultural/non-industrial culture which needed lots of children to help do the work and keep the family alive, to a technical/industrial culture which needs less children.
A world dominated by terrorism threats causes parents to hesitate to bring children into such a world.
Whatever the reason might be, these statistics raise the question as to whether we as a nation are less welcoming to children, less willing to bring them into the world than we once were.
“Do we really want this baby?” the sermon title asks. That is a question that Mary might well have asked as we look at our text this morning. In that text we heard how the angel Gabriel visited a young peasant woman named Mary, who was engaged to Joseph, a carpenter in her hometown of Nazareth.
We often don’t realize how alarming what the angel said to Mary must have been to her! “You will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you will name him Jesus.”
That wasn’t necessarily good news to a young woman getting ready for her wedding night to find out that she was going to be pregnant although she had not yet been with her husband Joseph. ! Her first question was: “How can this be?” It might well have been “What am I supposed to tell Joseph?”
In first century Jewish culture what she had just learned would be seen by her religious neighbors as adultery and was grounds for stoning and not just grounds for divorce or breaking the engagement! An engagement or betrothal was as binding as marriage. Mary’s life was endangered by this news!
Mary questioned the news saying: “How can this be, since I am a virgin?” and the angel answered her: “The Holy Spirit will come upon you and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be holy; he will be called the son of God.” WOW!! And the angel told her that the child’s name would be “Jesus”—the Greek form of the Hebrew word “Joshua” that means “He will save” in the Hebrew. WOW!!!
Mary could have said: “No way, Gabriel! I’m not going to touch this baby thing with a 10 foot pole! Way too much at risk here—my marriage, my very life is at risk. Sorry—find someone else. I don’t need this kind of a burden at this time of my life!
What Mary said was: “Here I am, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word!” In other words: “Yes, Gabriel, I want this baby if that is God’s will for me!”
The same question comes to us this Advent Season as we read the announcement of the angel Gabriel–– The question is: Do we really want this baby Jesus? Are we really ready to birth and cradle this Christ child in our own lives? Are we really ready to welcome the adult Jesus that he will grow into as a part of our world today? Are we??
Or are we more inclined upon hearing the claims and risks involved with accepting this Jesus into our world to hit the road and get outta town? Because when we birth and cradle this Christ Child in our lives we will find that this baby grew up and that the Christ will challenges us to be transformed as a member of God’s kingdom on earth that he came to proclaim. He will challenge us to also reach out our arms to others who will need our love and and the God of love that Christ proclaimed in their lives. And that might be inconvenient! That might be risky! That might we dangerous! That might make demands on us we don’t want to meet!
You see, if we truly welcome this Christ into our lives, our lives are going to be changed in a significant and total way, just as Mary’s life was changed significantly and totally!
It is significant that Mary said “yes” to the angel and to God and was willing to risk her reputation, her marriage, her very life, in order for the Son of God to enter the world. She didn’t worry about her engagement, her social standing, her health, or her long-term financial security. She didn’t spend a minute thinking about retirement benefits or whether she could use a child to take care of her in her old age. Instead she said “yes” to a baby who would grow up to be called Jesus of Nazareth, and be called the Son of God who would proclaim the good news that God’s kingdom and rule had entered the world and who would reveal God to us in a new and wonderful way as a God of love. Are we receptive to this rule of God in our lives? Are we hearing the call of God through Jesus to be transformed? Are we willing to embrace the Christ Child and the man, Jesus of Nazareth and allow his proclamation and his teachings and his example to make a difference in our lives?
If we say “yes” to these questions, we’ll find ourselves changed. If our lives are not changed by saying “yes” then we really haven’t said it with honesty. Because if we say “yes” then we will become a person who has Christ at the very center of who we are, just as Mary received the life of Jesus into the deepest and most intimate part of herself. We’ll turn into a person who can say along with Mary: “Here I am, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your will!! Are we willing to say that?
What we are talking about in this sermon is the word that we don’t find in the Bible but that the church invented to describe the mystery of Jesus’ birth—-INCARNATION. John’s gospel tries to describe it as “the word became flesh and dwelt among us.” The prophet Isaiah spoke of the word as “Immanuel”—God with us.” The incarnation means that our God, who stands outside of time—who is infinite (without ending)—-becomes finite (ending). The God who is all powerful becomes all-vulnerable. The God who brought the world into being now is born of Mary’s womb to bear the good news of God’s love for the world.
This is the gift of Christmas—the gift of God’s love for the world that came as a flesh and blood baby—Jesus. This Jesus was not some glow-in-the-dark-Christ- Child Jesus, the very God incarnate, was a real, live, ordinary, crying, cooing, sleeping, eating, wetting baby. And just as with all babies, his greatest need was to be held in human arms, touched by human hands, soothed by human words of love and reassurance.
He in turn, as we was brought up with love by Joseph and Mary, would reach out in love and show us that God was a God of love. That God cares for us. That God is with us at all times. And that challenges us, because as God seeks us through the incarnation, God’s love demands that we answer this question: DO WE WANT THIS JESUS IN OUR LIVES?
If we do, we will be forever changed, just as Mary was forever changed—-and we, in turn, will reach out to others, not just in this season of advent, but in all seasons, saying: “HERE WE ARE, SERVANTS OF THE LORD. LET IT BE ACCORDING TO YOUR WILL! ARE WE WILLING TO DO THAT?
Let me close with a story that took place during World War II:
A soldier was concluding sentry duty on Christmas morning outside London. It had been his custom in other years to attend worship in his home church on Christmas Day, but here in the outlying areas of London it was not possible. And so, with some of his buddies, the soldier walked down the road that led into the city just as dawn was breaking. Soon the soldiers came upon an old greystone building over whose entrance was carved the words: “Queen Anne’s Orphanage.” They decided to check and see what kind of celebration was taking place inside. In response to their knock, a matron came and explained that the children were war orphans whose parents had been killed in the London bombings.
The soldiers went inside just as the children were tumbling out of their beds. There was no Christmas Tree in the corner and no presents. The soldiers moved around the room, wishing the children a Merry Christmas and giving as gifts whatever they had in their pockets; a stick of gum, a Life Saver, a nickel or a dime, a pencil, a knife, a good luck charm. The soldier noticed a little fellow standing alone in the corner. He looked a lot like his own nephew back home, so he approached and asked, And you, little guy, what do you want for Christmas? The boy replied, “Will you hold me?” The soldier, with tears in his eyes, picked up the boy, nestled him in his arms and held him close.”
That’s what Emmanuel, God with us, means. . That’s what Jesus taught us: God does not keep us at arms length, but reaches out lovingly to us and hold us as the soldier held the little boy.
IF CHRIST IS BORN IN US THIS CHRISTMAS, WE TOO WILL REACH OUT WITH OPEN AND LOVING ARMS TO THOSE IN NEED—WE TOO WILL HAVE A HANDS-ON LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH ALL AROUND US. WE WILL SHOW BY OUR CHANGED LIVES THAT WE REALLY DO WANT THIS BABY JESUS! Amen.
Today we light the 4th Candle of Advent—the Candle of Love. And the birth of Jesus tells us: IT’S ALL ABOUT LOVE!! God so loved the world that he sent his only Son! Jesus—that Son, told us that all the law and commandments and the prophets were summed up in this simple yet profound statement—-“You shall love the Lord Your God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength—-and your neighbor as yourself!”
Jesus didn’t say just at Christmas time! He didn’t put any limits on how much or how often! And when he said “love” he said “love as I have loved you!” Amen.