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Living on the Edge

While life on hospice has become more normal for me, I still have the feeling that I am “living on the edge.”  Today is all I really have for certain and I need to live each day with that in mind.   While my strength is waning a little each day, signs of the inability of my heart not being able to pump blood to my extremities point toward heart failure and I face a heart attack at any time.  I realize that tomorrow may not be mine to live and therefore  make sure to tell my loved ones every day of my love for them and thank them for their loving care for me.  And I try to live each day as fully as I can—not knowing whether I will have another one.     I am blessed that I have this foreknowledge of my condition so I can prepare, as many do not have that foreknowledge. Others are not so blessed.

But as I look at this dangerous world in which we live I think  all of us are in a similar position to mine.   Illnesses strike us down unexpectedly; terrorists set off car bombs or blow themselves up in large crowds;  automobile accidents snuff  out lives quickly and without warning;  we are gunned down by bullets meant for others but we are unluckily in their path or a deranged shooter chooses the  place we are in to open fire —it may be a shopping mall, a movie theater, a school or a church.  It seems that we are not safe anywhere!

The principle is the same or all of us—without warning we and our loved ones lives may be snuffed out.

So when we tell our loved ones goodbye in the morning we need to tell them that they are loved   That may be the last time we have a chance to do so   Death is so final—-it erases any attempt we might wish we had to express our love; to express our need for forgiveness;  to express our own forgiveness to those we love.

That is the life we all live as we are “living on the edge”.   We may not think the phrase applies to us, but it does.   Give your husband, your wife, your children, your mother and father, your grandchildren  and your siblings the love you feel for them every chance you are given  because, like it or not we are all “living on the edge”  every day.

May we build our lives as the French writer Stephen Grellet (1773-1855) wrote:

I shall pass thru this world but once.

Any good I can do or any kindness I can show another human being

Let me do it now.

Let me not deter or neglect it—

FOR I SHALL NOT PASS THIS WAY AGAIN.

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We Need Each Other

All human beings live under the illusion they  are the ones who are in control of their lives.  Especially Americans see themselves as “rugged individualists” who have a “I can do it by myself and don’t need anyone else to help me”attitude.    This even shows up in our attitude toward church in the  feeling that “I  don’t need the church.  I can have my own personal relationship with God without s bunch of sinners around me who are more messed up than me. ”  These people say “I am not religious, I’m spiritual’.

This illusion is exposed when we face end of life.     I am seeing how illusory the attitude is as I grow more and more dependent on hospice and on  those I love     There are many things I can’t do and my wife and son Greg are always there to help me.   Without them I would be in a nursing home already—-but with them with me and with hospice  I am able to be home in surroundings I love.  I am loved and cared for by others  and am very blessed with a church family  who visits, sends cards a .  I am  seeing how false the illusion of “individualism”is as I get telephone calls and cards from friends and loved ones both in the church and outside the church.

We are born to live in relationship with others.    We started as babies completely dependent on our parents for a long period of time., and  many of us end our lives in the same way—dependent on those who love us.  All of our lives we need relationships.   We are created in the image of God who wants relationship with us—-  Love is a relationship word and cannot be limited anymore than God can be limited .   Love is shown only through action in relationship to others;

We need others in our lives if we love God.   God is not completely loved by us until we love our neighbors., because they are all God’s children.    It is the role of the church to provide those relationships and to encourage us to develop relationships with God and our fellow human beings.  To those who who say  “I have a personal relationship with God and that’s all I need” I would say “stop fooling yourself.”    You cannot fully love God if you don’t fully love  your neighbors., God’s children, made in God’s image.

God  works with these neighbors to provide his love and care to you.     They actually are the deliverers of God’s grace.   You cannot receive God’s love and care on a bank with a fishing pole in your hand.   You receive God’s love through others who love God and are recipients of God’s love and grace.

Climbing Ladders

There is a drive in all of us to achieve success in our lives.   That is what our ego’s, or as Rohr puts it “our false self” feeds upon.   Seldom do we take time to really define what “success” is.    What is “success” for you?   You will have to answer that question, I can’t.   I have a hard enough time answering  the question for myself!

On my wall above my desk are some physical signs of what might be called success.   Three college degrees (including two Master’s degrees);  Awards of various kinds from both the Education field (Who’s Who in American Education, e.g.)  and the field of Christian Ministry (Minister Emeritus of Christian Church in Kansas, e.g.).   Does that mean I’m a success?   No—it means some people think that I am a success, I feel.

I have pictures in my office of my two children, a boy and a girl.   They are now adults and are doing well—but most important they are loving and caring individuals who are contributing to society.   Does that make me a success?   I’d like to think so,  but who knows but what they would be the same despite me being there to help raise them—-and I have to share any success in that area with my wife who did more to raise them than I was able to do while working two jobs to support my family.

I have a nice, comfortable home in Wichita and a loving wife to share it with after the death of my first wife.   We have two cars and a half-garage full of woodworking tools that I love to use.    My life is comfortable and I’ve had reasonably good health for my age in the late seventies.   Does that make me a success?   It may mean that I am blessed by God far beyond what I deserve, but I do not believe material things make me a success.

Wherein should my feeling of success lay then?    As I write this I am reminded of the words of Thomas Merton:  “People may spend their whole lives climbing the ladder of success only to find, once they reach the top, that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.”

I am trying, at this point in my life, to lean my ladder of success on the right wall—God’s wall.   The only true success I can strive to attain is in an ever closer relationship to God.    I found at the sudden death of my first wife that all the knowledge and skills that I had were of no value in dealing with an event over which I had absolutely no control.   I turned to God and said:   “Help me God, I can’t do this without you.”   And I felt a peace come over me and knew that God heard and began the healing process of my heart at that point.

Since that time, as God helped heal my grief and led me to a loving caring and Godly  woman that would share my life and become my wife,  I have realized more and more that the ladder to success for each of us mortals is the ladder to God.   The happiness my wife and I feel today is the result of a “God-thing”, we both agree.   So I have endeavored to place my ladder of success on the wall of God.

And the greatest thing about the ladder  to God is that we don’t have to laboriously climb it from day to day with great fear of falling and failing—-instead our God of love and grace comes down the ladder to dwell  with us now; right here,  and will do so forever.    Amen

Our Cycle of Fear is Killing Us

 

Present day Americans are full of fear.  We fear other people who are not “like” us.  We fear other religions.   We fear poverty and street people (homeless).  We fear terrorists attacks.   We fear our government.   We fear Republicans or Democrats (whichever we’re not).  We fear unemployment.  We who are older fear retirement and running out of money before we die.  If we are black, we fear policemen  .   If we are  policemen, we fear blacks.   We fear flying due to terrorist attacks.  We fear mass shootings in shopping malls and we fear for our children with mass shootings at schools.  So what do we do?—-we buy guns to protect ourselves from other people who are not like us.  We install expensive security systems in our homes our schools and our municipal building and our airports.   In my home state of Kansas, you can openly carry guns on the streets and in most public buildings, and you can conceal carry also without a permit.   With all these guns, has the homicide rate gone down, have mass shootings subsided any?    Are we safer with all our guns and security systems? Or do we now need to fear guns even more because everyone has one and few know how and when to safely use them?   So the circle of fear goes on and on, around and around, in an unending cycle of violence and fear and violence and fear and people continue to die because of our fears.  OUR FEARS ARE KILLING US!!

Isn’t there another way to live our lives?   A better way?   Jesus pointed to it a couple thousand years ago?   Paul explained it in I Corinthians 13:1-13.   But it seems that we Christians have missed the point  that  both were making—-The way of love is the key to end fear, not more weapons.     Jesus said it when he explained that the greatest commandment is to love God and love your neighbor as yourself.    Paul summed it up in his “love chapter” in I Corinthians 13: 1-13 as “the better way he will show them:  “Faith, hope and love remain, but the greatest of these is love.”   

After years of fear,  and of killing other individuals out of fear in our own country and   killing others around the world because of our fear of them, isn’t it time to try another way—a better way—-the way of love instead of instead of the way of hatred and fear and the resulting violence?

Take the Iraq War, for example:   We have spent, as a nation, according to a study by Brown University in 2013,  $1.7 trillion.   Add to this the benefits paid to veterans over their lifetime and the cost goes to over $6 trillion dollars.  This war started out of fear—a fear that turned out to be unfounded—-that Saddam Hussein had weapons of mass destruction and was preparing to use them on the U.S.   The weapons were never found, but the U.S. made a preemptive first strike and then it was too late.    So, fear ran its course and thousands upon thousands of human lives were extinguished on both sides because of that fear. And 2 + trillion dollars were spent because of that fear.  We chose to act out of fear and have reaped what benefits?    More fear and more hatred from those whose families we have killed.  More suffering and fear by our soldiers who were maimed and whose lives were ended or changed forever by their time in Iraq.  And now we see the rise of ISIS that operating by generating fear and hatred of all but their own brand of  Islamic extremists—- and the fear of ISIS is  threatening to start the cycle all over again.  And the circle of fear goes on and on, and on, and on, and on…..

Love is the only way to break  the circle of violence we are caught in..   Consider this thought:   if we had taken the 2 trillion dollars spent on the Iraq war and spent it for humanitarian purposes in the Middle East and in poverty stricken nations, including our own nation’s poor and homeless.   If we had used the money  to lift people up, helping them to find ways for them to produce food to feed themselves, providing hospitals and adequate medical care,  helping them improve technologically so that they might be able to earn a decent living. If  we had spent money for humanitarian things like decent water wells, the Heifer Project, the Peace Corps, If we had used the money to house our homeless, to provide jobs for the unemployed in our country-— In other words if we had used that 2 trillion dollars to show  love and care for human beings created in God’s image—-  instead of shooting them down in fear and hatred in other countries,  and  hiding the poor behind barriers in our own  country,   have we any idea what difference that might  have made?   Will we ever know?   Not until we have tried it.  

The gun creates fear and hatred.   Love creates trust and compassion.   That is true on the individual level and it is true on the national and international level.    Perhaps it is time to end the politics of fear and try the politics of love at all levels—but the best place to begin is in our own lives, in our own cities and towns in our country.   Who knows, it might spread to our states, our country and the world from those simple beginnings?!   The change begins with you!!

A Mother’s Love….

I am reposting this for Mother’s Day from last year and will do so each year.  Hope you enjoy reading it as a reminder.

There is a common answer given by most people who have performed an heroic, life-threatening deed in order to save another human being.   In response to the inevitable question by a TV report asking “What did you feel when you were doing that?” the answer is usually “I really felt nothing.”

For example, a stranger who helped pull three children from a burning car answered the question about how he felt with the words:   “I didn’t even think about it.  It was happening so fast, and I knew I just had to get them out of there.”   Another example is the mother who lifted a tree that had pinned her son’s leg:   “I didn’t even feel how heavy it was—-until I put it down.”

You see, when love, care, and compassion for another take over completely, it is expressed in actions, not feelings.   Love is action!  Genuine love always leaps before it looks!    

That is exactly the love we celebrate on Mother’s Day this coming weekend—love in action.   Love is the force behind all the meals Mom prepares and prepared for us;  love is behind the chauffered trips to soccer, baseball, ballet, piano lesson, etc.   Love is behind all of those good-night books read to sleepy children by a tired mom at the end of a long day; love is behind all the walks and talks—-and all the other things that Mom’s do today and did in the past.    Our mothers may have not told us they loved us very often, but we knew from their actions as we look back on them how much they did love and care for us and still do if we are blessed enough to still have them with us.

So—on Mother’s Day try to do something that shows how much you love and appreciate your mother.   Don’t just tell her we love her, but DO SOMETHING TO SHOW YOUR LOVE.!

Shortly before Jesus’ death he gave his disciples a new commandment  (See John 13:31-35)     He told them to “show your love”.   He said “Love one another as I have loved you.”   He said, “By your love for each other they will know you are my disciples.”   And the love Jesus recommended was action oriented.   Jesus showed people his care for them by healing, teaching, and showing them his compassion—not just talking about it!  

How do we measure up to this commandment of love—-by our actions—not our words.   

Let me give you an example from my own life.   One Christmas, not too long after our daughter Lisa was married, my wife (now deceased) and I received a frame letter from her.   It says, in part…

“THANK YOU….

for staying together.   there are so few children today who have two parents.   Through your commitment to each other in good times and bad times you have taught me that love does not give up and it does not leave.   I saw modeled in you that love is a choice, not always a feeling.

thank you for lots of hugs and love.   You taught me that showing affection is a good thing and that I should never be embarrassed to say “I love you”.   Your affection shown to one another assured me that all was well in the world…

Thank you, Mom and Dad, for patiently persevering and loving me unconditionally even when I was the most stubborn and difficult to be around.   The love, sacrifice, and commitment you have shown me has not gone unnoticed.

You have laid a foundation in my life of security, confidence and love that has enabled me to love and be loved.   I am seeing the value of this foundation in my marriage and also in my most important relationship with God….”

This framed letter is one of my most important possessions.  It shows how love for each other influences those around us, including our children.

ARE WE DOING THIS?   Not always!   As this story indicates:

The story is told about a Los Angeles police officer who pulled a driver over to the side of the freeway and asked for his license and registration.

“What’s wrong officer?” the driver asked, “I didn’t go through any red lights, and I certainly wasn’t speeding.”

“No you weren’t speeding or breaking any laws, the officer said:   “but I saw you flashing the one-fingered salute as you swerved around the lady who was driving too slow in the center lane, and I further observed your flushed and angry face as you shouted unprintable things at the driver of the Hummer who cut you off, and I saw how you pounded your steering wheel when the freeway traffic ground to a halt.”

“Is that a crime, officer?”

“No, but when I saw the “JESUS LOVES YOU AND SO DO I” bumper sticker on your car, I figured, “This car has go to be stolen!”

LOVE IS LESS WHAT YOU SAY AND FEEL THAN IT IS WHAT YOU DO!   Amen.

 

 

 

Fearfulness and Faithfulness

 

Text:  Matthew 10:24-39

Theme:   Faith in God cancels our fears.

There is a story about a young man who went off to college with great expectations of success.   After he had been there a month, he sent a note to his father, “Feather in my cap, elected class president”.   Two months later, he sent another note to his father, “Another feather in my cap; accepted into the best fraternity”.   One month later, a third note:   Still another feather in my cap, leading role in class play”.

One semester later, he sent a note to his brother:  “Flunked out, prepare father.   Tell him to send money for me to get home!”

The brother sent a note back:   “Father prepared.  Prepare yourself.   Father says put those feathers on your shoulders and fly home!”

Obviously the young man was afraid and insecure and was trying to convince  both himself and his father that he was successful by these “feather in the cap” notes—-while, in reality, he was struggling and gripped by feelings of fear of failure.   I often wonder how the story might have been different if he had faced the fear, talked about it with his father, and askd for help and advice.  He might have discovered his father had struggled with the same issues and could have given him help and support.   BUT HE WAS AFRAID TO DO SO!!

 

ONE OF  THE GREATEST  CAUSES OF HUMAN STUPIDITY IN ACTION THAT LEADS TO WARS, AND KILLING AND CHAOS AND SUFFERING  TODAY IS FEAR.   We are afraid of others.   We are afraid of ourselvesBeing fearful seems to be a national characteristic in our current times in the U.S.    We are afraid of the horrific things happening in the middle east spreading to our country.  Fear was at the heart of the terrible thing that happened in Ferguson, MO recently—-fear the white policeman had of black people—-fear the black teenager had of the police.   And because of that a needless death and resulting chaos,  fed by fear on both sides.

We do live in a frightening world—frightening in many ways.   Pick up your morning paper and read about terrorists who attack randomly and try to kill as many as possible; mass shootings at schools and public places regularly; murders, drunken drivers that kill innocent and unsuspecting people; lying, cheating; storms such as tornadoes, floods, hurricanes, earthquakes.

We are afraid of losing jobs and afraid  of cancer, We fear for our children’s safety as well as our own, and this fearfulness causes us to teach our kids not to trust anyone they don’t know.   Fear causes us to encase ourselves in a protective shell that triest to shut out the rest of society and the world.

 

 

Just what is this FEAR  that we are talking about?   I like Barbara Taylor Brown’s description of it:  “Fear is a small cell with no air in it and no light.  It is suffocating inside and dark.   There is no room to turn around inside it.   You can only face in one direction, but it hardly matters since you cannot see anyhow.   There is no future in the dark.  Everything is over.  Everything is past.   When you are locked up like that, tomorrow is as far away as the moon.”

IN OTHER WORDS, YOU CAN’T OPEN THE DOOR OUT OF THIS PRISON BECAUSE YOUR FEAR PARALYZES YOU.   If you do anything it might make it worse.  You feel safer to stay where you are even if you cannot breathe and cannot move—-that is how fear feels!

Only faith in God can cancel this kind of fear.  And Brown describes FAITH as:   “More like a rope bridge over a scenic gorge, sturdy but swinging back and forth, with plenty of light and plenty of air but precious little to hold on to except the stories that you have heard that this is the best and the only way across and that it is possible that it will bear your weight.!!

IN OTHER WORDS—–we have to have faith in the power of the bridge to deliver us safely more than we do in the power of the gorge to kill us, if we are to overcome our fear.  We need to trust in God’s love for us and God’s presence in our lives at all times, if we are to overcome our fearfulness.   Only God is able to help us cancel our fearfulness.

There is a lot of fear in the world.   And we need to differentiate a little here.   There is a difference between “fear” and “being fearful.”

“Fear” is a reaction to a definite threat.   It causes our adrenal glands to shoot adrenalin into our body and prepare by increasing heartbeat, respiration, etc. for either “flight” or “fight.”

“Being Fearful” is a general feeling of being afraid without any concrete reason to feel that way.    It is more an attitude—-the way we view things.    Being fearful is like being anxious—there may not be any concrete and specific reason for it.

So—WHAT IS OUR FEARFULNESS THAT IS CONSTANTLY OUR COMPANION ALL ABOUT?    WHY ARE MOST OF US “BEING FEARFUL MOST OF THE TIME?  I THINK IT IS BECAUSE OF SOMETHING I CALL “THE HUMAN CONDITION” THAT LEADS US TO “BEING FEARFUL.”

The human condition is something we all have to live with It can be summarized this way:   Firstsome things will budge for us and some won’t.  Second, We cannot live forever no matter how desperately we try.   And third, We cannot control everything that happens to us.

THAT IS THE HUMAN CONDITION AND IT CAN BE FRIGHTENING BECAUSE WHAT IT MEANS IS THAT WE CANNOT CHOOSE ALL OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES OF OUR LIVES.   WE CANNOT CONTROL EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO US!

Our lives can be comfortable one minute and spin completely out of control the next.

We can be a happily married couple one minute and a widow or widower the next minute—all in a heartbeat or the lack of a heartbeat

We can plan for our future retirement and wake up the morning before we retire and find that much of what we have worked so hard for and saved has been wiped out by a stock market or bank failure over which we have no control.

We can build our dream home and the week we move in huddle in its basement as a tornado destroys it.

WHAT ALL OF THE ABOVE WITNESS TO US IS THAT WE ARE NOT IN CONTROL!!.

All we can really control is how we respond to what happens to us that is beyond our control.

And just because we believe in God doesn’t shield us from any of the results of the human condition!    Our only assurance is that God loves us and will be with us to give us the strength and resources we need to cope with our human condition.    God’s resources are many,  God’s constant presence  and love are all around us.   God even sends his people, his servants to minister to us in times of need and to help us through any of the storms of life that we face

We are not alone.   We need not fear.   As Paul writes in  Romans 8:

“Who will separate us from the love of Christ?   Will hardship, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? …..No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who love us.    For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”  

It takes a lot of courage to be a human being!!!  And it takes a lot of trust in God!!!  That’s why Jesus’s words are so important—-“Fear Not”!!

Jesus spoke to the problem of the human condition in our text today.  If we put the reading in context, Jesus was preparing his disciples to go on a mission to preach to the towns and villages in Galilee.  and was warning them that the things that people say and do about him will also be said and done to his disciples.   His disciples would be the recipients of the same hostility and rejection Jesus had already experienced.   They must  have shown signs of fear to go on the assignment as Jesus told them a total of 3 times to “Fear Not”.    He said:   “See, I am sending you out like sheep into the midst of wolves;….Beware of them, for they will hand you over to councils and flog you in their synagogues; and you will be dragged before governors and kings because of me….(10:16-18).    Because of our own experiences with fear, we can imagine something of the dread the disciples must have felt as Jesus sent them on their mission, especially because he went on to speak of the threats and dangers they could expect to encounter:  arrests, floggings, hatred, betrayal, and other forms of persecution.   I’m sure Peter must have said to himself—“Hey Jesus!  I didn’t sign up for this when I left my fishing boat to follow you!!”

But then Jesus told his disciples to not fear any of these things he had just listed.   He said, “Do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul; rather fear him who can destroy both body and soul in hell.”

Jesus also told his disciples:   “So have no fear of them, for nothing is covered up that will not be uncovered, and nothing secret that will not become known.   What I say to you in the dark, tell in the light, and what you hear whispered, proclaim from the housetops.    ….

And:  “Are not two sparrows sold for a penny?   Yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father.   And even the hairs of your head are all counted.   So do not be afraid, you are of more value than many sparrows.”

 

In the final analysis, Jesus said in this passage,  only two events could  befall his followers—life and death—–and both are in the hands of God.  Trust in God cancels out fear!   THEREFORE, DO NOT BE AFRAID.   God is God of the past,  is God of the present, and is God of the future.   YOU ARE IN GOD’S HANDS AND THERE IS NOTHING TO BE AFRAID OF IF YOU TRUST IN GOD!!  GOD’S GRACE CANCELS OUT FEAR!!  Trust in God’s Grace!!

It’s always been that way.   Long before Jesus spoke, God had spoken to Isaiah, saying:

Thus says the Lord, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel.  Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;  I have called you by name, you are mine.    When you pass through the waters, I will be with you, and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you;  when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you…..because you are precious in my sight, and honored, and I love you!” (Isaiah 43: 1-4)

 

Some time ago, I read this story and it has stayed in my mind.   It so perfectly gives meaning to the text of this sermon that I’d like to share it with you.

A man was traveling across the country on an airliner.   Somewhere over Texas, the plane hit a storm and the pilot came on and said,  “We are not going to be able to go around this storm or over it so we’ll be going through it.   Please fasten your seatbelts as there will be a lot of turbulence.

Not too long after the announcement the storm struck.   There was thunder and lightening and the plane was tossed around like a child’s toy in the turbulence as the pilot fought to keep control of the plane.   Everyone was frightened—some were praying others were hugging loved ones—-except for one little girl the traveler observed.    She was about six years old and was sitting quietly in her seat,  seemingly not frightened at all by the fear and turbulence that was all around her.

After the plane safely landed, the traveler approached the little girl, still in her seat, and said:   I am surprised that you weren’t afraid of all that storm and what happened like the rest of us were.   Can you tell me why?

The small girl answered:   “My Daddy is the captain and he was taking me home.”

IF GOD IS THE CAPTAIN OF OUR LIVES—-GOD WILL TAKE US HOME SAFELY—-DO NOT FEAR!!!   Amen

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Remember Who is in Your Boat!

How many of you have experienced some really bad turbulence when you were flying?   I will never forget a flight I was on a few summers ago.   I was flying from San Antonio back to Kansas City after spending a week at Trinity University in San Antonio reading Advanced Placement American History essays for the College Board and Educational Testing Service.   Slightly after we had passed over Fort Worth we unexpectedly hit some of the worst turbulence I have every experienced.   Even the pilot was caught off-guard, as he had just given the O.K. to serve a meal.   Suddenly the plane went every which way, dropping so suddenly that dishes flew everywhere and one of the flight attendants was thrown upward, hitting her head on the ceiling of the plane and sustaining a serious injury.   It was a totally frightening experience!

If we have experienced such an episode in our lives, it may help us identify with the 12 disciples of Jesus in a boat on the sea of Galilee when a violent storm, common to that sea, erupted around them.

We read the story in Mark 4:35-41:

When evening had come, Jesus said to them, “let us go to the other side.”   And leaving the crowd behind, they took him with them in the boat, just as he was….

  • Note:   To be a disciple of Jesus was to be always on a journey, it seemed.

A great windstorm arose, and the waves beat into the boat, so that the boat was being swamped.   But Jesus was in the stern, asleep on the cusions…

  • Note:   Jesus is in the boat with the disciples.   He journeys with them.   They don’t have to “go it alone.”    Although we must also note that Jesus’ presence doesn’t always guarantee smooth sailing—–as it does not guarantee smooth sailing for us today at all times.      There is a terrible storm and the disciples fear for their lives.   Jesus, however, is unperturbed by the storm and sleeps through it until he is awakened by his fearful disciples.
  • And note that the journey can become perilous when we are with Jesus.   Being a disciple of Jesus is not always a calm and peaceful affair—-for his original twelve or for his disciples today.   Some of our greatest adventures with Jesus may be in storms, in the dead of the night, when it is dark, and we’re feeling lost….

And they woke him up and said to him, “Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing?”

  • This is the central question of this text:   “Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing?   And , of course, the answer is Jesus does care!

Jesus shows his care by his actions….”He woke up and rebuked the wind, and said to the sea, “Peace, be still!”   Then the wind ceased and there was a dead calm.   He said to them, “Why are you afraid?   Have you still no faith?”

  • Jesus does not just SAY he cares—he ACTS to show that he cares.   He calms the storm, rebukes the wind and waves, and saves those who without his care might be lost.
  • Jesus also wonders why the disciples are afraid and did not have faith, after all this time with him.    “What’s with your phobia?” is a more literal Greek translation.  Yet despite lack of faith, Jesus does not desert those who dare to travel with him.   He is not choosy about his travel companions!
  • Note also that it is only when the disciples seem to think that all is lost do they think to turn to Jesus.   Isn’t that true for all of us?   Only when we are up against the proverbial brick wall do we discover the saving grace of Jesus was there for us all the time?   Jesus cares and is always there for you—-that is the message of this text.

We have many and various storms in our lives today, don’t we?    The storm may be the discovery of a serious illness that suddenly slams us down.   The storm may be the death of a loved one that comes unexpectedly.   The storm may be the alienation and rejection by a friend or mate whom we love and respect and felt the feeling was mutual.   The storm may be the failure of a business or a church that we put our heart and soul and material goods into.   The list could go on and on.

So how do we try and meet the storms in our lives that assail us?

  • Most of us react like the disciples—we try to take care of it ourselves.   Our natural inclination is to want to control events and fix the things that go wrong in our lives.
  • At some point, though, our own humanity stares us in the face and fear marches through our body and soul.   This is the fear that leads to despair and hopelessness. THAT IS THE POINT WHERE JESUS MEET US WITH A WORD TO THE STORM.  “Be Quiet!”   “Be Still!”  ONLY WHEN WE ARE UP AGAINST THE WALL AND IT SEEMS HOPELESS AND WE CAN’T HELP OURSELVES DO WE THINK TO TURN TO JESUS!
  • And we realize at that point that Jesus has been there with us all the time, if we had but recognized his presence in our lives!

JESUS IS IN THE BOAT WITH US AS WE GO THROUGH LIFE’S STORMS—-HE CARES!    Amen.