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God Never Gives Up on Us

Text:   Genesis 9:8-17

 I give up!!   I can’t take it anymore!   I’m out of here!!!.   These words, shouted in anger are a cause for many fears that arise in the minds of those who hear them.   It may be words shouted by a husband to a wife; or by a wife to her husband; or by parents to a child.   Whoever hears them will usually react with fear—-fear of abandonment.

            Fear of Abandonment is perhaps the greatest fear that stalks us from the time we are born until the time we die.    We see evidence of this fear in many different circumstances.   For example:

One of the fears that babies feel is probably that of being abandoned.   They are so helpless and so dependent upon parental figures to meet their needs.   Research has shown that babies who are abandoned in hospitals by their mothers and fathers, if not regularly held by nurses or other aides at the hospital may well die for no apparent physical reason.   Those who survive will be likely to have permanent psychotic problems the rest of their lives. All of us who have been parents recognize the cry of fear when a baby thinks its mother has left it. All who teach school or who are parents remember kindergarten or pre-school children who are going to be away from their mothers or fathers for the first time, clinging to the mothers and fathers-and crying—they are afraid that their parents won’t come back for them.   FEAR OF ABANDONMENT.

But fear is not confined to babies.   Adults have the same fears. Many men and women in our society will put up with both verbal and physical abuse and violence from their mates rather than face the fact that they might be abandoned.   It is a real fear that comes out when couples divorce—-what will I do without my spouse?   Why did he/she leave me?   I feel lost and rejected and ABANDONED!!!   I  have heard these words many times as a pastor.

Spouses who have lost loved ones by death often express the same fear —-why did he/she abandon me?   What will I do?  

One of the saddest experiences I’ve had is walking into a hospital room or nursing home room and seeing a patient in the midst of great suffering or actively dying-–AND THE PERSON WAS ALONE!!   For some reason no one was at the bedside.   At the same time it is always amazing to watch that person’s countenance change the minute myself or a loved one or a friend walks into the room.   Those who suffer are less anxious, and even have less pain when someone they love or care for deeply is willing to walk with them through the valley of the shadow.

As a hospice chaplain, I learned that one of the seven greatest fears that dying persons have is DYING ALONE!   Abandonment! They often feel abandoned by doctors who don’t see them as often; by friends who don’t know what to say so stay away; and even by family that doesn’t visit as much because they are uncomfortable and unable to handle the fact that their loved one is dying.   FEAR OF ABANDONMENT IS A REAL FEAR FOR MANY AT THE END F LIFE, AS WELL AS AT THE BEGINNING OF LIFE!!

One other fear we have is FEAR OF ABANDONMENT BY GOD.   In hospice we called this “SPIRITUAL PAIN” and it is the feeling that God has abandoned us because of our worthlessness or sinfulness.   Spiritual pain can result in great anger toward God, or great sorrow, and is difficult for the patient to overcome.   It can be a direct cause of death.  

NOW—-WHAT DOES ALL OF THE ABOVE HAVE TO DO WITH THE TEXT THAT WAS READ THIS MORNING ABOUT NOAH AND GOD’S COVENANT WITH HIM?

 According to the story of Noah,   God saw all the evil in humanity and his creation and threw up his hands and said—-O.K.   that’s it!   I’m out of here.   But he didn’t quite abandon all creation to destruction—-he found one righteous man—Noah—and saved him and his family and his creation through him.   The rest were destroyed by the Great Flood.  

 After the Great Flood that destroyed all creation but Noah and his family and the animals on the ark, , as the story goes, God saw what had happened and regretted it and changed his mind about his relationship with humankind and creation in the future.   So God made a covenant with Noah and with all future generations of his creation.  God vowed that never again would God be the destroyer.   From this time on God would be the forgiver, the sustainer of life.   Never again would God abandon his creation to chaos—symbolized by the Flood.  And to seal this decision with Noah he offered the covenant we read this morning.  

            God said:   This is the sign of the covenant that I make between me and you ad every living creature that is with you, for all future generations:   I have set my bow in the clouds, and it shall be a sign of the covenant between me and the earth.   When I bring clouds over the earth and the bow is seen in the clouds, I will remember my covenant that is between me and you and every living creature of all flesh; and the waters shall never again become a flood to destroy all flesh. (9:12-15)

            The Hebrew word here for “bow” is “keshet” and it may be used to refer both to a weapon or a natural phenomenon—-to a “bow” (as in bow and arrow)   or to a “bow” (as in rainbow).   Some scholars think that the context here tells us in this passage that God is placing his “unstrung bow” in the clouds as a reminder of the covenant that God has made, not just with Israel but with all creation. Never again will God’s power be used to destroy mankind—-no matter how terrible the aggravation we may give God.   God is saying that his weapon—thought to be thunderbolts and rain from the sky by the ancient Hebrews—is no hanging “on the wall, unstrung” so to speak and will remain there forever.

 THIS RAINBOW IS A REFLECTION THAT GOD IS DETERMINED NEVER TO GIVE UP ON US.   GOD WILL NEVER ABANDON US TO CHAOS AGAIN.   From this moment on, God promises to never give up on us, no matter what we do or do not do. AND THE KEY WORDS ARE:   “I WILL REMEMBER”.   This is the heart of the gospel that Jesus brought—-God forgives and God’s remembers.

 When we are down and feeling like our life has reached an all time low, we have God’s rainbow to remind us that God will never abandon us.

When we have blown it and have totally messed up, God’s rainbow reminds us that we are redeemable in the eyes of God and worth saving.  

IT IS THE SAME GOD THAT SET THE RAINB OW IN THE SKY THAT REMINDS US THAT NEVER AGAIN WOULD CREATION BE ABANDONED—-AND HE SENT JESUS THE CHRIST TO US TO MAKE SURE WE UNDERSTAND.  

IT IS JESUS THE CHRIST,, WHO TELLS US THAT WHEN HE ASCENDS TO God he will send the Holy Spirit to us so that we may never be alone.   Jesus’ gift to us who are his disciples of the Holy Spirit is the new “bow”, the new “sign from God” that we will never be abandoned.

 AND WHAT IS TRUE FOR EACH OF US INDIVIDALLY IS TRUE FOR THE CHURCH AS THE BODY OF CHRIST ON EARTH.

 LISTEN TO THE WORDS OF JESUS PROMISES THAT WE WILL NEVER BE ABANDONED:

John 17:6-15   “I am not asking you to take them out of the world, but I ask you to protect them from the evil one.

John 16:32-33The hour is coming when you will be scattered, each one to his home, and you will leave me alone. Yet I am not alone because the Father is with me.   I have said this to you, so that in me you may have peace. In the world you face persecution.   But take courage; I have conquered the world.

Matthew 28:16-20    All authority has been given me in heaven and on earth.   Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.   AND REMEMBER I AM WITH YOU ALWAYS….”

To the thief on the cross who asked Jesus to remember him when he came into his glory:   “Today you shall be with me in Paradise”

And Paul, thinking of all he had suffered in his work for Christ, writes in Romans 8:   Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Will hardship or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?….No, convinced that neither death nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

 

Some of you may have, in the past, attended a Marriage Encounter Weekend.   One of the phrases they drum into the minds of those who are ther that I still remember is “GOD ISN’T THROUGH WORKING WITH YOU YET.”   “GOD ISN’T FINISHED WITH YOU!!”

 God sees us individually as a “work in progress.”   And he has promised us His love and grace will always be there for us, even when we screw up seriously.  

I believe that what God promises up individually, God also promises his church—the body of Christ on earth.   God will not abandon his church.   But I also believe that God calls us to recapture the vision of service to Him. \  

After the flood Noah began a new life in a new world.   Jesus came to show us a vision of a new world—the Kingdom of God that he was proclaiming was breaking in on earth. .   I think that God calls us to recapture the vision of that new world, the Kingdom of God that Jesus taught and lived, and to work for that in our community, our church, and our world.   We’ll talk more about that vision in next Sunday’s sermon.

            We as Christians and the church are facing difficult times.   The church is experiencing difficult times—but regardless of what happens, God promises us that he will not give up on us.   God will always be there for us.   GOD ISN’T FINISHED WITH US YET.

            I’d like to close with this story.   Dr. Martin, an evangelist was holding meetings at a church in Boston.   Large crowds attended and many people came to a belief in Jesus Christ.   His wife fell ill with the flu and was very, very ill.   She was so ill that Dr. Martin decided that he would cancel his evening evangelistic meeting so as to be with her.   Their son, who was about six years old, spoke up at that time.   The son told his father and mother—-you don’t have to worry about Mommy, God will take care of her.

            On the basis of that Dr. Martin and his son left to attend the revival meeting.   While he was gone, his wife got to feeling much better—the crisis was past—-and she got up and was waiting for them when they returned, feeling much better.   Thinking of the words that their son had spoken, she sat down during their absence and wrote these words, which were later put to music by her husband, Dr. Martin.   We now may have sung it as the gospel hymn:   God Will Take Care of You.

 

Be not dismayed whate’er betide, God will take care of you;

Beneath his wings of love abide, God will take care of you.

 

Through days of toil when heart doth fail, God will take care of you;

When dangers fierce your path assail, God will take care of you.

 

All you may need, He will provide, God will take care of you.

Nothing you ask will be denied, God will take care of you.

 

No matter what may be the test, God will take care of you.

Lean, weary one, upon His breast, God will take care of you.

 

God will take care of you, Through every day, O’er all the way;

He will take care of you.   God will take care of you!

 

Amen.

 

 

 

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God Never Gives Up On Us

Fear of Abandonment!  Perhaps this is the greatest fear that human beings have.  It stalks us from the time we are born until the time we die!   We see evidence of that fear in many different circumstances:

  • In babies and young children who feel abandoned when they cannot see their parents  Research has shown that babies who are abandoned in hospitals by their mothers and fathers, if not regularly held by nurses or other aides at the hospital may well die for no physical reason.   Those who survive will be likely to have permanent psychotic problems for the rest of their lives.   All of us who have been parents recognize the cry of fear when a baby thinks its mother has left it—-all who teach school or who are parents remember kindergarten children who are away from their mothers for the first time—-clinging to their mothers or fathers and crying—-afraid that the parent won’t come back for them—-fear of abandonment!
  • Adults have the same fears.  Many are the number of men and women in our society who put up with both verbal and physical abuse and violence from their mates rather than face the fact that their mates might abandon them.   As a pastor I have heard this many times from both men and women who are in the midst of divorce—-“I feel lost and rejected and abandoned!”
  • One of my saddest experiences as a pastor was walking into a hospital room or nursing home room and seeing a patient in the midst of great suffering or even actively dying—AND THE PERSON WAS ALONE!   At the same time, it was always amazing to watch that person’s countenance change the minute myself or a loved one or friend walked into the room.   Those who suffer are less anxious, and even have less pain we are told, when someone they love or care for deeply is willing to walk with them through the valley of the shadow.
  • As a hospice chaplain, I learned that one of the seven greatest fears that dying persons have is DYING ALONE.   Abandonment!   Terminal patients often feel abandoned by doctors who don’t see them as often;  by friends who don’t know what to say and so stay away; and even by family that doesn’t visit as much because they are uncomfortable with the realization that the person is dying.   FEAR OF ABANDONMENT IS A REAL FEAR FOR MANY AT THE END OF LIFE AS WELL AS AT THE BEGINNING.
  • One other fear is FEAR OF ABANDONMENT BY GOD.   In hospice we referred to it as “Spiritual Pain.”   It is a feeling by the patient that God has abandoned them because of their worthlessness or sinfulness.   Spiritual pain can result in great anger, or great sorrow, and is difficult for the patient to overcome.  Spiritual pain can be the cause of death of hospice patients before the terminal disease overcomes them.

The Bible speaks often to this fear of abandonment.    One of the places it speaks is in the book of Genesis.

God said (to Noah),  “This is the sign of the covenant that I make between me and you and every living creature that is with you for all future generations.   I have set my bow in the clouds and it shall be a sign of the covenant between me and the earth.   When I bring clouds over the earth  and the bow is seen in the clouds, I will remember my covenant that is between me and you and every living creature of all flesh; and the waters shall never again become a flood to destroy all flesh.”   (Genesis 9:12-15

The Hebrew word for “bow” here is keshet—and it may be used to refer both to a weapon or a natural phenomenon—-to a “bow” (as in bow and arrow) or to a “bow” (as in rainbow).

Some scholars think that the context of this passage tells us that God is placing his “unstrung bow” in the clouds as a reminder of the covenant God has made, not just with Israel but with all creation, to never again use God’s power to destroy humankind, no matter how terrible the aggravation we may give God.

Regardless of how “bow” is translated, the message is the same—-the “bow in the clouds” is a constant reminder that God will never give up on us.   This is the heart of the gospel that Jesus is at the center of.   This is the heart of the gospel that the Apostle Paul proclaimed.   God loves his creation and that love is not something we earn but are freely given.

Jesus tells his disciples shortly before his death:   I will not leave you orphaned.   I am coming to you.   In a little while the world will no longer see me, but you will see me; because I live, you also will live.   (John 14:18-19)

Jesus’ final words to his disciples at the close of Matthew’s Gospel are:  “And remember I am with you always, even to the close of the age.”

Paul reassured the Corinthian Christians with these words:   “He will also strengthen you to the end, so that you may be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.   God is faithful, by him you were called into the fellowship of his Son, Jesus Christ, our Lord.

And Paul’s writes the ultimate words of assurance of God’s love in his letter to the Romans:   “Who will separate us from the love of Christ?  Will hardship, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?  ….No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.   For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation , will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”   (Romans 8:35-39)

God is with you.    You cannot change that.    God will never abandon you.   As the prophet  Isaiah writes:   “But now thus says the Lord, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel:   “do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine.   When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you.    For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior.   I give Egypt as your ransom.   Ethiopia and Seba in exchange for you.   Because you are precious in my sight, and honored, and I love you.   (Isaiah 43:1-4)

The Psalmist sings:   “The Lord is my shepherd.   I shall not want.   He makes me lie down in green pastures; he leads me beside the still waters, he restores my soul.   He leads me in the paths of righteousness for his names sake.   Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, he is with me; his rod and his staff comfort me.   He prepares me a table in the midst of my enemies; he anoints my head with oil; my cup overflows.   Surely goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my life and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.”   (Psalm 23)

God loves us as God’s children!   He will not abandon us—ever.   In our joys and in our sorrows; in our triumphs and our failures,  when life is beautiful and when it is stormy, God is there.   Despite anything you or I do—-God loves us and will never abandon us.